Do You Believe in Love (Lust) at First Sight?

                 Check this out:  Do you believe in love (or lust) at first sight? Wohooo...a wildly discussion question ever since. Yes...No...Yes...No...Love...Lust...Love...Lust. I’d so much fun reading every comment here and there about this topic.

 

            My point of view falls on...LUST at first sight! It’s kind of a vintage concept when we speak about love at first sight. It was so fictional. Today’s generation is full of excitement, fun and games. People are more innovative, creative and adventurous. So how come it’s gonna be in a split of second knowing love comes in a deep sincere thought. Although time changes...opinions also change. Beliefs, clichés and attitudes toward feelings stirred up. The idea of first love at first sight is so universal wherein people used to define feelings of admiration, affection and lust as love.

            Confused??? What is love??? What is lust??? What's the difference between lust and love? Lust is a sort of prerequisite condition of love. Love at first sight seemed to view for its possibility only based on how people think and believe about it. You may say you believe in love at first sight because you believe in love and you feel something to a person the first time you saw him/her. Yes...love is so real though that you can’t even hide from it. It makes you go crazy over it, it’s magical, it’s confusing...it’s the weirdest feeling ever. I do too believe in love...of course. But, do take note that real love is the deepest feeling we have. It comes in stages of feelings to come up with that what we called love...the real love!

When you speak of loving at first sight? It’s kinda awkward that you might just keep questioning about it ‘coz it’s really so skeptical. It’s not really love you feel in just one blink. You are just hypnotized by that physical outlook of a person. It’s lust. You got deceived by your thought believing it’s already love. Yah!...it’s love though, but it’s not the true meaning of love. You may also foresee that “Its gonna be him/her.” with no conviction, without a doubt, wherein you feel that electrifying connection with that person...and you stick with that belief. It’s just a result of our so called “creative imagination”. You can’t just know whose gonna be your future. Still, to play off with our imagination will help us to create our desires. That‘s not an instant situation then, so you can’t just say it’s love at first sight. It’s all last at first sight. Don’t be confused...because love is a Lust Of Vast Emotions. See...lust is within love. Love is in the inner part of our feelings.

Guys Love Girls in Words

            Guys have convincing power in words for girls. They’re really sophisticated. It sounds so perfect. Whatta crazy stuff. I’m always mesmerized how it works. So I come to view in their horizon and observe some possibilities. Words are not enough though but why guys love girls with just wordsss??? Check this out:

• 1.       Guys’ nature – They are born to be such an expressive people especially when it comes to liking girls. It’s part of their way to win over for love. Complimenting girls just come out in them naturally. Blowing in for the right word sounds so magical wherein girls used to be blind folded. Although it’s green-eyed for us girls knowing guys can only do it that way...it’s incomparable.
• 2.       Guys’ deal – Guys are easy going when it comes to love. Boys trifle over girls on love. Through their words. They just go with the flow and enjoy that ride. They do love giving compliments. The fact is that, their egos enhances when they praises a girl they love. It’s kinda awkward then not to mean those words. Words where us girls just read and hear...not see nor feel in actions.
• 3.       Guys’ vagueness – Words use for love by guys are their reflection of uncertainty. Their minds are wrapped up with undecided decisions on whether they really love the girl. Such communicating with their feelings through words are used sometimes in a hilarious way of playing safe to please girls on their hazy intentions.
• 4.       Guys’ shyness – This techy generation is an advantage for a silent-type guy to clearly spell out their feelings to a girl through words. Though they can’t speak to it directly...they type it in through text messages and chats. Mostly, they prefer to involve in a ranging networking sites. They can fearlessly express their feelings with conviction in there.

All these instances are usual situation. Expressing feelings through words are helpful to win for love, they’re effective and proven. Still, the best way to prove love is by showing it with a genuine and perseverance efforts. Love is not just a WORD...it’s an ACTION WORD. So guys...you better shut up...just move!

“Falling In Love” Vs. “Being In Love”

            When we talk about love...basically the first thing comes on our mind is that...”I’m falling for him/her!” Psychologically speaking, that sounds a typical way to say it. It’s very unusual for everyone. On the other hand, literally speaking, there’s something wrong with that. It’s totally such a mistake to fall for love. You’ll never notice that easily ‘coz the feeling you had is perplex. You really had no idea why you eventually end up loving him/her. It’s not a forceful situation that you decided to fall...you just fall...no exemption. That’s how love works though. Love is always a mystery. But, isn't it’s wrong to fall in love? Somehow, you’ll gonna realize that the idea of falling with someone may sooner or later leads to heartaches and broken-hearts.  Another thing is that, it’s uncertain if the one you’re falling with is willing to catch you. It’s kinda half-witted guessing game. The worst thing, you’re gonna think of love to be unfair wherein you just keep on hanging or got bruised for falling. You come out to feel bitter and may judge love for its imperfection.  Yeah...it’s really part of falling in love. Motion creates emotion. That motion to fall isn't gonna be perfect way in bringing up a feeling for love. The tendency to fall hard gives a deeper pain. Those pains will hurt you so much that may ruin your life and make you so miserable. It’s never gonna be easy. Recovery stage depends on the state of the affected situation. You’ll never know how long it would last although time will heal.

                   

             Yes!...it’s gonna be love, you got it. Isn't it sounds great when you say “I’m being in love with him/her!” or just say “I’m inlove with him/her!”? Omitting the word fall provides you a different outlook. You see all great things and beautiful. That’s the real love – happy, understanding and comforting...selfless...perfect love. The idea of being in love indulges in a cozy and fantastic experience. It’s like putting your love to someone you’re in loved with. Still, that love is unexplained ..it’s by nature that you just feel the magic of love...so you just love...just love...not FALL. It’s guaranteed that no one does gonna be hang unlike when you fall in love. Being in love with someone provides acceptance on wherever your love be going. The chance to have that mutual feeling is definite too. When you’re in love, you let those pieces of both your hearts to be handle with care and trust with each other. Those hearts as a symbol of love will surely grow for a lusting relationship because of such nourishment  It’s always a part of love then to experience those down moments but it’s divergent to falling in love. Painful situation are much lighter and healing process have lesser time when you’re being in love. It’s because of the proper way of handling your relationship. You both know and understand that they’re just challenges for both of you to overcome together. You always come up as a team with love being merged as one. So there’s nothing more to feel than being in love . Don’t stop loving...keep being in love everyday.

Overwhelmed

When I see you,

I can’t help but to smile

When I hear your voice,

My heart beats so high

That feeling of mine,

I just can’t hide

You’re so awesome,

I can’t deny.

You got me hooked,

With just one look

How amazing you are,

I like you more

I can’t explain,

This feeling’s so sure

Such a crazy brain,

You’re my only cure.

I can’t move,

Feel like I’m crushing

Oh I can’t take it,

My body is shaking

Give me a minute,

You are breath-taking

Just a little bit,

It’s so undying.

Your bright eyes,

Says a lot

Your powerful voice,

Is what you got

Your lovely face,

Always been hot

That makes me inspire,

Sounds like a nut.

All of my joy,

It overflows

Because of you,

I come to know

All I see is red

On air that blows

Music sounds good,

Wherever you go.

The Guy Who’s Afraid To Speak For Love

               I always wander...Why are you afraid to speak for love? That feeling you really wanna spell it out. That feeling you’re keeping for so long. Although, there are times you used to share it with your friends. You’re hysterical ‘bout such things and your friends knew it. Still, you don’t have that courage and that dill dally thing overpower you believing that your friends are willing to help you to work it out.

                I don't get that point of you to be silent about it. It’s kinda exhausting to just stare on her. When you get back with her smile...c’mon...you just feel contented about it making your day complete. OMG!...what an eerie thing! When you finally met her and started to make conversation, you find it perfectly awesome. Hmmm...that chit-chat in a friendly way. I know what you mean...to make friends first. It’s a nice step, but as you get closer with her, you used to like her much. You started to love her more evenly as you have never thought before. You want to be more than friends since then, but your greatest enemy-fear to disclose your feelings-pretends you to stay that same way. There comes you begin to get jealous and startle to lose her knowing you don’t have such rights over her. You play-act that everything’s alright though deep inside you’re drying out loud and it hurts you much. As time goes by, everything you had stays the same though it seemed to be a little complicated. You are very open and comfortable with each other. It sounds like there’s mutual feeling already. It’s just there...no changes.

                I used to doubt if you’re really serious and fixed with your feelings or...uncertain. My curiosity comes out on why you haven’t even tried to spell it out. You’re the guy to break that obscurity. What are you afraid at??? A possibility whether to succeed or to fail??? The friendship built??? Are there conflicts that may affect your relationship??? OMG! That may be hindrances...but in reality they’re just challenges. The point is...to let your feelings be known. That’s very irrational. Your hesitation will bring you to a wasteful predicament. How will you know that she loves you too if you won’t allow yourself to be officially part of her, if you won’t share what you feel, if you won’t try to follow your heart? No second thought...no “What Ifs”, just take the chances. Time may change everything instantly. Speak up for what you feel and it’s worth it. As you may analyze...”That moment a girl opens a door for a guy is a way for her to let you in on her life”, meaning, the friendship you have built in may definitely result in a fruitful relationship as a couple. You have to listen to what your heart is fighting for more than what your debatable mind says. Our mind is just guidance on what we feel for love. You have to take risk and get freed of from your haziness. When it comes to love, I guess you need to make a move to work it out. Don’t mind what people may think or say, as long as it’s love for good. There are just two things involved: you...and your feelings.

                Guys who’s afraid to speak for love...for me...are not just coward but a total wreck. Cheer up young guy...EXPLORE AND EXPERIENCE!