Read Her – Signs That a Girl Likes a Guy

It’s a pathetic thing for a guy to read a body language that’s why girl’s actions play a hard part from guys POV most of the time. Well, it’s a guy’s nature that they just can’t easily decode on what’s goin’ on with a girls head, what she’s tryin’ to mean, what she wants to convey.

IKR, girls mind and actions are kinda complicated. It changes very quickly and guys have a tough understanding ‘bout it. Opps wait, don’t be confused – read her. There are lots of signs but here, I came up with major signs summed up for you guys to watch out on us girls.

1.       Eyes – our iris dilates which denotes interest. So ya better practise on looking on our eyes.

2.       Smile – most of the time we’re smiling and laughing like LOL even with boring topics or lamest punch lines.

3.       Voice tone – unusual voice pitch on a high note to be noticed when you talks to us but we’re totally oblivious ‘bout it.

4.       Convo – we’re keeping up with the convo. Sometimes we don’t replied back so quickly ‘coz we wanna let you chase on a tease esp. when convo is done thru text/chat.

5.      Actions – we’re kinda tensed (blushing cheeks, palm sweating, stuttering talks, deep breathing, random touching of hair and a bit nervous)

We Are Who We Are

Normally, we got an impression with a person the first time we meet them. Their gestures, their physical appearance, and how they talk. Those impressions give us that specific distinction of our personality. Those impressions will give us our personal integrity, our personal value. And those impressions will be the basis on what treatment others bestowed on us. The thing is...what makes a positive impression to be the first that will last?

My POV is that...sometimes this is not really a sure enough thinking. I guess being more of ourselves will always be the best answer. Oops wait...by the way, being our selves is not that just easy. We tend to be out of our minds, everything of us actually, especially when we’re with that someone we like, we see someone we admire, we meet someone that makes us flicker. Isn’t it so awkward that we feel conscious? We’re now trying to be who we are not. Being in the state of consciousness make us uncomfortable. The way we act seem to be unexpected. We can’t concentrate. Hmmmnn...sidesplitting!

Another thing...be confident & flash a smile! We can smooth things out of how we deal with such personal consciousness through confidence. Take note – just don’t overdo it. There are times also that we might feel mousily strange and it’s normal. It’s kinda cutie...phew, and a little demure at the same time. Well, throwing up a simple smile will blew out people to give their impression positively. We tend to feel attractive and beautiful. That smile is a foundation of building up confidence. Who knows...someone is in love with your smile hehe.

I always used to keep in mind that impressions defines us, so better take off your shoes and express yourselves then flicker us with that oh-so-lovely smile, though we know we can’t please everyone...at least...we are who we are.