Read Her – Signs That a Girl Likes a Guy

It’s a pathetic thing for a guy to read a body language that’s why girl’s actions play a hard part from guys POV most of the time. Well, it’s a guy’s nature that they just can’t easily decode on what’s goin’ on with a girls head, what she’s tryin’ to mean, what she wants to convey.

IKR, girls mind and actions are kinda complicated. It changes very quickly and guys have a tough understanding ‘bout it. Opps wait, don’t be confused – read her. There are lots of signs but here, I came up with major signs summed up for you guys to watch out on us girls.

1.       Eyes – our iris dilates which denotes interest. So ya better practise on looking on our eyes.

2.       Smile – most of the time we’re smiling and laughing like LOL even with boring topics or lamest punch lines.

3.       Voice tone – unusual voice pitch on a high note to be noticed when you talks to us but we’re totally oblivious ‘bout it.

4.       Convo – we’re keeping up with the convo. Sometimes we don’t replied back so quickly ‘coz we wanna let you chase on a tease esp. when convo is done thru text/chat.

5.      Actions – we’re kinda tensed (blushing cheeks, palm sweating, stuttering talks, deep breathing, random touching of hair and a bit nervous)

Guys, Effort Please!

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How do guys get a girl these days? They do it so easily right? I mean no sweat, no effort. Well, IKR...no wonder, everything goes out with social media. You can make friends with a girl you seen online that you find pretty, cute or stunning by hitting up that ADD FRIEND button. You can easily chase what’s goin’ on ATM with the girl you’re admiring by just hitting up that FOLLOW button. You can get connected with the girl you’re into by chatting her, get her digits, go out for a meet up... and there ‘ya go---see what happens next. That’s so, so real quick. A guy can have it all in a short period of time.

TBH, I understand these days, time flew fast and searching out for a potential relationship through social media is kinda an edge to give it a shot. Even it’s been miles away or on the other side of the world, a guy can likely get a girl. Hmmm, one thing I just notice is that guys take this for granted. You might say...just guys? Srsly?  Yep, of course! Still, guys should initiate right? Well, they forget what an EFFORT means. An effort to show the real motive, to show the respect, to show the sincerity. Damn it... that’s what girls anticipate, an effort. It’s a must and guys should be mindful of that. Girls often are kinda tenuous when it comes to feelings. We can easily snag by guys tricky moves. It’s inevitable. IKR, it’s a girl thing and it could be guy’s implication for a sloppy intention. Guys, take a note...it doesn’t work all the time, so don’t be at ease with that though. Ya know what, usually these guys befriend a girl, get into that petty convos, afterwards where now? What the heck? They’re here now, tomorrow they’re gone. Sometimes in the middle of nowhere, without even hitting them into our head, they suddenly beep us up. Phew! They might say, I just wanna know how are you...I just thought of you...I got nothing to do, ya know-a little bored blah blah blah. They might think there’s an effort in there, ‘coz they keep in touch. I might say that’s effort inconsistency. Such a big sigh. So guys, pls. don’t mess up. If you want a girl, it shouldn’t be like that and I know you knew what should be. 

That Time

As we are sitting side by side,

I began to think of what’s inside,

The feelings I have, I used to hide,

Analyzing the details throughout my mind.

Making conversation with you, so fine!

In a typical stories, we still got in line,

It’s amazing how funny it is to smile,

Simple glimpse on you, in a closer mile.

Good to feel at ease, with you throughout that time,

But the moment you got me home in prime,

There’s something in me, I don’t know why,

What a perfect day uh-oh!!! I’m just so high.

I’m trying to figure out,

If there’s no such thing to doubt,

Believing on what’s love all about,

Unusual state of mind…Speak out!

“Falling In Love” Vs. “Being In Love”

            When we talk about love...basically the first thing comes on our mind is that...”I’m falling for him/her!” Psychologically speaking, that sounds a typical way to say it. It’s very unusual for everyone. On the other hand, literally speaking, there’s something wrong with that. It’s totally such a mistake to fall for love. You’ll never notice that easily ‘coz the feeling you had is perplex. You really had no idea why you eventually end up loving him/her. It’s not a forceful situation that you decided to fall...you just fall...no exemption. That’s how love works though. Love is always a mystery. But, isn't it’s wrong to fall in love? Somehow, you’ll gonna realize that the idea of falling with someone may sooner or later leads to heartaches and broken-hearts.  Another thing is that, it’s uncertain if the one you’re falling with is willing to catch you. It’s kinda half-witted guessing game. The worst thing, you’re gonna think of love to be unfair wherein you just keep on hanging or got bruised for falling. You come out to feel bitter and may judge love for its imperfection.  Yeah...it’s really part of falling in love. Motion creates emotion. That motion to fall isn't gonna be perfect way in bringing up a feeling for love. The tendency to fall hard gives a deeper pain. Those pains will hurt you so much that may ruin your life and make you so miserable. It’s never gonna be easy. Recovery stage depends on the state of the affected situation. You’ll never know how long it would last although time will heal.

                   

             Yes!...it’s gonna be love, you got it. Isn't it sounds great when you say “I’m being in love with him/her!” or just say “I’m inlove with him/her!”? Omitting the word fall provides you a different outlook. You see all great things and beautiful. That’s the real love – happy, understanding and comforting...selfless...perfect love. The idea of being in love indulges in a cozy and fantastic experience. It’s like putting your love to someone you’re in loved with. Still, that love is unexplained ..it’s by nature that you just feel the magic of love...so you just love...just love...not FALL. It’s guaranteed that no one does gonna be hang unlike when you fall in love. Being in love with someone provides acceptance on wherever your love be going. The chance to have that mutual feeling is definite too. When you’re in love, you let those pieces of both your hearts to be handle with care and trust with each other. Those hearts as a symbol of love will surely grow for a lusting relationship because of such nourishment  It’s always a part of love then to experience those down moments but it’s divergent to falling in love. Painful situation are much lighter and healing process have lesser time when you’re being in love. It’s because of the proper way of handling your relationship. You both know and understand that they’re just challenges for both of you to overcome together. You always come up as a team with love being merged as one. So there’s nothing more to feel than being in love . Don’t stop loving...keep being in love everyday.

Overwhelmed

When I see you,

I can’t help but to smile

When I hear your voice,

My heart beats so high

That feeling of mine,

I just can’t hide

You’re so awesome,

I can’t deny.

You got me hooked,

With just one look

How amazing you are,

I like you more

I can’t explain,

This feeling’s so sure

Such a crazy brain,

You’re my only cure.

I can’t move,

Feel like I’m crushing

Oh I can’t take it,

My body is shaking

Give me a minute,

You are breath-taking

Just a little bit,

It’s so undying.

Your bright eyes,

Says a lot

Your powerful voice,

Is what you got

Your lovely face,

Always been hot

That makes me inspire,

Sounds like a nut.

All of my joy,

It overflows

Because of you,

I come to know

All I see is red

On air that blows

Music sounds good,

Wherever you go.

The Guy Who’s Afraid To Speak For Love

               I always wander...Why are you afraid to speak for love? That feeling you really wanna spell it out. That feeling you’re keeping for so long. Although, there are times you used to share it with your friends. You’re hysterical ‘bout such things and your friends knew it. Still, you don’t have that courage and that dill dally thing overpower you believing that your friends are willing to help you to work it out.

                I don't get that point of you to be silent about it. It’s kinda exhausting to just stare on her. When you get back with her smile...c’mon...you just feel contented about it making your day complete. OMG!...what an eerie thing! When you finally met her and started to make conversation, you find it perfectly awesome. Hmmm...that chit-chat in a friendly way. I know what you mean...to make friends first. It’s a nice step, but as you get closer with her, you used to like her much. You started to love her more evenly as you have never thought before. You want to be more than friends since then, but your greatest enemy-fear to disclose your feelings-pretends you to stay that same way. There comes you begin to get jealous and startle to lose her knowing you don’t have such rights over her. You play-act that everything’s alright though deep inside you’re drying out loud and it hurts you much. As time goes by, everything you had stays the same though it seemed to be a little complicated. You are very open and comfortable with each other. It sounds like there’s mutual feeling already. It’s just there...no changes.

                I used to doubt if you’re really serious and fixed with your feelings or...uncertain. My curiosity comes out on why you haven’t even tried to spell it out. You’re the guy to break that obscurity. What are you afraid at??? A possibility whether to succeed or to fail??? The friendship built??? Are there conflicts that may affect your relationship??? OMG! That may be hindrances...but in reality they’re just challenges. The point is...to let your feelings be known. That’s very irrational. Your hesitation will bring you to a wasteful predicament. How will you know that she loves you too if you won’t allow yourself to be officially part of her, if you won’t share what you feel, if you won’t try to follow your heart? No second thought...no “What Ifs”, just take the chances. Time may change everything instantly. Speak up for what you feel and it’s worth it. As you may analyze...”That moment a girl opens a door for a guy is a way for her to let you in on her life”, meaning, the friendship you have built in may definitely result in a fruitful relationship as a couple. You have to listen to what your heart is fighting for more than what your debatable mind says. Our mind is just guidance on what we feel for love. You have to take risk and get freed of from your haziness. When it comes to love, I guess you need to make a move to work it out. Don’t mind what people may think or say, as long as it’s love for good. There are just two things involved: you...and your feelings.

                Guys who’s afraid to speak for love...for me...are not just coward but a total wreck. Cheer up young guy...EXPLORE AND EXPERIENCE!

Isn’t

Isn’t I’m that easy to get attracted to someone???

Whenever I got constant communication, I’d been drawn???

Even it’s just exchanging messages through phone???

With this...ohh, can’t understand. How come???

Isn’t it’s wrong to follow on where it’ll be going???

To enjoy that ride where chances are coming???

To open the light & keep that fire on burning???

Regardless of whatever people around are thinking???

Isn’t I’m too wary for my feelings to spell it out???

Wherein I look too anxious mixed with a doubt???

In spite most of the time my heart beats loud???

‘Coz I don’t know what idea in his mind’s all ‘bout???

Isn’t much time in knowing him more be so crucial???

Knowing that it’s there, no need to be in a social???

For this kind of set-up is no longer than usual???

So then now...what’s next...where then I shall???

Isn’t this too much for me to miss him so bad???

That I still can’t hide all the craziness I had???

Pretending to feel fine even though I feel sad???

Just because I got a beep from him...oh lad???

Isn’t he had notice that I used to like him gradually???

For all the things he shares on me unexpectedly???

Then make fun of the topics that are so...so...oddly???

Can’t get enough with that desire in knowing more curiously???

So many questions

For my uncertainties

It’s all go and yes

Fun, chase, game and tease.