Do You Believe in Love (Lust) at First Sight?

                 Check this out:  Do you believe in love (or lust) at first sight? Wohooo...a wildly discussion question ever since. Yes...No...Yes...No...Love...Lust...Love...Lust. I’d so much fun reading every comment here and there about this topic.

 

            My point of view falls on...LUST at first sight! It’s kind of a vintage concept when we speak about love at first sight. It was so fictional. Today’s generation is full of excitement, fun and games. People are more innovative, creative and adventurous. So how come it’s gonna be in a split of second knowing love comes in a deep sincere thought. Although time changes...opinions also change. Beliefs, clichés and attitudes toward feelings stirred up. The idea of first love at first sight is so universal wherein people used to define feelings of admiration, affection and lust as love.

            Confused??? What is love??? What is lust??? What's the difference between lust and love? Lust is a sort of prerequisite condition of love. Love at first sight seemed to view for its possibility only based on how people think and believe about it. You may say you believe in love at first sight because you believe in love and you feel something to a person the first time you saw him/her. Yes...love is so real though that you can’t even hide from it. It makes you go crazy over it, it’s magical, it’s confusing...it’s the weirdest feeling ever. I do too believe in love...of course. But, do take note that real love is the deepest feeling we have. It comes in stages of feelings to come up with that what we called love...the real love!

When you speak of loving at first sight? It’s kinda awkward that you might just keep questioning about it ‘coz it’s really so skeptical. It’s not really love you feel in just one blink. You are just hypnotized by that physical outlook of a person. It’s lust. You got deceived by your thought believing it’s already love. Yah!...it’s love though, but it’s not the true meaning of love. You may also foresee that “Its gonna be him/her.” with no conviction, without a doubt, wherein you feel that electrifying connection with that person...and you stick with that belief. It’s just a result of our so called “creative imagination”. You can’t just know whose gonna be your future. Still, to play off with our imagination will help us to create our desires. That‘s not an instant situation then, so you can’t just say it’s love at first sight. It’s all last at first sight. Don’t be confused...because love is a Lust Of Vast Emotions. See...lust is within love. Love is in the inner part of our feelings.

Guys Love Girls in Words

            Guys have convincing power in words for girls. They’re really sophisticated. It sounds so perfect. Whatta crazy stuff. I’m always mesmerized how it works. So I come to view in their horizon and observe some possibilities. Words are not enough though but why guys love girls with just wordsss??? Check this out:

• 1.       Guys’ nature – They are born to be such an expressive people especially when it comes to liking girls. It’s part of their way to win over for love. Complimenting girls just come out in them naturally. Blowing in for the right word sounds so magical wherein girls used to be blind folded. Although it’s green-eyed for us girls knowing guys can only do it that way...it’s incomparable.
• 2.       Guys’ deal – Guys are easy going when it comes to love. Boys trifle over girls on love. Through their words. They just go with the flow and enjoy that ride. They do love giving compliments. The fact is that, their egos enhances when they praises a girl they love. It’s kinda awkward then not to mean those words. Words where us girls just read and hear...not see nor feel in actions.
• 3.       Guys’ vagueness – Words use for love by guys are their reflection of uncertainty. Their minds are wrapped up with undecided decisions on whether they really love the girl. Such communicating with their feelings through words are used sometimes in a hilarious way of playing safe to please girls on their hazy intentions.
• 4.       Guys’ shyness – This techy generation is an advantage for a silent-type guy to clearly spell out their feelings to a girl through words. Though they can’t speak to it directly...they type it in through text messages and chats. Mostly, they prefer to involve in a ranging networking sites. They can fearlessly express their feelings with conviction in there.

All these instances are usual situation. Expressing feelings through words are helpful to win for love, they’re effective and proven. Still, the best way to prove love is by showing it with a genuine and perseverance efforts. Love is not just a WORD...it’s an ACTION WORD. So guys...you better shut up...just move!

“Falling In Love” Vs. “Being In Love”

            When we talk about love...basically the first thing comes on our mind is that...”I’m falling for him/her!” Psychologically speaking, that sounds a typical way to say it. It’s very unusual for everyone. On the other hand, literally speaking, there’s something wrong with that. It’s totally such a mistake to fall for love. You’ll never notice that easily ‘coz the feeling you had is perplex. You really had no idea why you eventually end up loving him/her. It’s not a forceful situation that you decided to fall...you just fall...no exemption. That’s how love works though. Love is always a mystery. But, isn't it’s wrong to fall in love? Somehow, you’ll gonna realize that the idea of falling with someone may sooner or later leads to heartaches and broken-hearts.  Another thing is that, it’s uncertain if the one you’re falling with is willing to catch you. It’s kinda half-witted guessing game. The worst thing, you’re gonna think of love to be unfair wherein you just keep on hanging or got bruised for falling. You come out to feel bitter and may judge love for its imperfection.  Yeah...it’s really part of falling in love. Motion creates emotion. That motion to fall isn't gonna be perfect way in bringing up a feeling for love. The tendency to fall hard gives a deeper pain. Those pains will hurt you so much that may ruin your life and make you so miserable. It’s never gonna be easy. Recovery stage depends on the state of the affected situation. You’ll never know how long it would last although time will heal.

                   

             Yes!...it’s gonna be love, you got it. Isn't it sounds great when you say “I’m being in love with him/her!” or just say “I’m inlove with him/her!”? Omitting the word fall provides you a different outlook. You see all great things and beautiful. That’s the real love – happy, understanding and comforting...selfless...perfect love. The idea of being in love indulges in a cozy and fantastic experience. It’s like putting your love to someone you’re in loved with. Still, that love is unexplained ..it’s by nature that you just feel the magic of love...so you just love...just love...not FALL. It’s guaranteed that no one does gonna be hang unlike when you fall in love. Being in love with someone provides acceptance on wherever your love be going. The chance to have that mutual feeling is definite too. When you’re in love, you let those pieces of both your hearts to be handle with care and trust with each other. Those hearts as a symbol of love will surely grow for a lusting relationship because of such nourishment  It’s always a part of love then to experience those down moments but it’s divergent to falling in love. Painful situation are much lighter and healing process have lesser time when you’re being in love. It’s because of the proper way of handling your relationship. You both know and understand that they’re just challenges for both of you to overcome together. You always come up as a team with love being merged as one. So there’s nothing more to feel than being in love . Don’t stop loving...keep being in love everyday.

Overwhelmed

When I see you,

I can’t help but to smile

When I hear your voice,

My heart beats so high

That feeling of mine,

I just can’t hide

You’re so awesome,

I can’t deny.

You got me hooked,

With just one look

How amazing you are,

I like you more

I can’t explain,

This feeling’s so sure

Such a crazy brain,

You’re my only cure.

I can’t move,

Feel like I’m crushing

Oh I can’t take it,

My body is shaking

Give me a minute,

You are breath-taking

Just a little bit,

It’s so undying.

Your bright eyes,

Says a lot

Your powerful voice,

Is what you got

Your lovely face,

Always been hot

That makes me inspire,

Sounds like a nut.

All of my joy,

It overflows

Because of you,

I come to know

All I see is red

On air that blows

Music sounds good,

Wherever you go.

The Guy Who’s Afraid To Speak For Love

               I always wander...Why are you afraid to speak for love? That feeling you really wanna spell it out. That feeling you’re keeping for so long. Although, there are times you used to share it with your friends. You’re hysterical ‘bout such things and your friends knew it. Still, you don’t have that courage and that dill dally thing overpower you believing that your friends are willing to help you to work it out.

                I don't get that point of you to be silent about it. It’s kinda exhausting to just stare on her. When you get back with her smile...c’mon...you just feel contented about it making your day complete. OMG!...what an eerie thing! When you finally met her and started to make conversation, you find it perfectly awesome. Hmmm...that chit-chat in a friendly way. I know what you mean...to make friends first. It’s a nice step, but as you get closer with her, you used to like her much. You started to love her more evenly as you have never thought before. You want to be more than friends since then, but your greatest enemy-fear to disclose your feelings-pretends you to stay that same way. There comes you begin to get jealous and startle to lose her knowing you don’t have such rights over her. You play-act that everything’s alright though deep inside you’re drying out loud and it hurts you much. As time goes by, everything you had stays the same though it seemed to be a little complicated. You are very open and comfortable with each other. It sounds like there’s mutual feeling already. It’s just there...no changes.

                I used to doubt if you’re really serious and fixed with your feelings or...uncertain. My curiosity comes out on why you haven’t even tried to spell it out. You’re the guy to break that obscurity. What are you afraid at??? A possibility whether to succeed or to fail??? The friendship built??? Are there conflicts that may affect your relationship??? OMG! That may be hindrances...but in reality they’re just challenges. The point is...to let your feelings be known. That’s very irrational. Your hesitation will bring you to a wasteful predicament. How will you know that she loves you too if you won’t allow yourself to be officially part of her, if you won’t share what you feel, if you won’t try to follow your heart? No second thought...no “What Ifs”, just take the chances. Time may change everything instantly. Speak up for what you feel and it’s worth it. As you may analyze...”That moment a girl opens a door for a guy is a way for her to let you in on her life”, meaning, the friendship you have built in may definitely result in a fruitful relationship as a couple. You have to listen to what your heart is fighting for more than what your debatable mind says. Our mind is just guidance on what we feel for love. You have to take risk and get freed of from your haziness. When it comes to love, I guess you need to make a move to work it out. Don’t mind what people may think or say, as long as it’s love for good. There are just two things involved: you...and your feelings.

                Guys who’s afraid to speak for love...for me...are not just coward but a total wreck. Cheer up young guy...EXPLORE AND EXPERIENCE!

Dear Mr. Right

               Haven’t you realize how much time I’d been waiting for you? All my life I spend my time mingling with different people aside from family and relatives. I met so many friends, long and short time friends. I got a best friend, close friends and group of friends. There were playmates when I was a kid. There were classmates during my school years. Social mates when I started to hang-out. Work mates as I go working. Chat mates and text mates whenever I’m on my own of my spare time. Although some last...others remain, still, I do treasure them being part of my life. But, that time with you...it’s a different story. I’d been so patient. I don’t know if I’m totally prepared once you come. I get advice, I read articles, watches, and listens on experiences of others. I am sure that the time with you would be the most precious time ever.

                Haven’t you wondered that it’s not that easy to be with just friends ‘coz I’m longing for you? Those moments I share with people I have are all wonderful even though there are ups and downs. I had so much funny and crazy stuffs with them especially with my closest friends but it’s not enough and I want you there. Chatting about anything under the sun, teasing with fancy crushes & relationships wanting I have too, and punching on mischievous remarks on ridiculous situations is all in.  House and out parties, movies, picnics, photo shoots, music craze, events and celebrations all these, stand out. Everything sounds fantastic of all the happy hours with friends. But, I guess having you there would be real magical. Although there comes...despair, melancholy, brokenhearted, stress, sorrow, miserable, troublesome, misunderstanding and hurt...still, everything fall fine into pieces. Friends can always be counted into. They offer their hugs that used to be real comforters. They’ll sit beside and their hearts are not just ears who listens but do understand. Offering their prayers inspires that it used to be the lighted candle for a brighter future. These instances are serious side with friends where relationships are formed with trust that deepens and strengthen. With you, I’m sure, I don’t feel any downfall situation ‘coz you would without exception...be my superhero.

                Haven’t you ever think how I go crazy in love with you? The moment I wake up ‘til I sleep, I picture it how perfect you are. How you would smile at me knowing that I’m starring at you. How you throw on your witty statements just for me to laugh so hard. How you whisper sweet words to cuddle me up. How you touch my face to remind me how much you love me. How you hold my hand to assured me you’ll never leave whatever happens. How you hold me so tight for ease when I feel weak. How you fight for your love on me if there are constraint.

I want to come about that you never stop loving me. Let’s share more stories and secrets. I hope we will together build up that trust for a stronger relationship. Wishing that no misunderstandings, if there would be, blow me a kiss to break up a fight instead. Let’s make so many memories. I’m hoping that you’ll never ask for more ‘coz you got me and you’re totally complete. Even though I’m not perfect, you see me so perfectly beyond perfection. I assure you that I’ll love you forever. You’re my perfect mate and companion. You are my life.

I’m so excited on you and I’m so eager to know you more. Don’t be afraid to show it off, to spell it out...whatever you feel. I guess it’s not a great deal for me to take that first move in revealing my feelings. I’m just waiting on you. I’m telling you...”I Love You”. So go. Let your courage takes you to get that real true love in me.

Guys...For Reel or Real???

               These days when we think ‘bout guys...whoooh, they’re really are such boys...who usually make rules for games...and that’s their nature though. It’s good to see how they enjoy life. They are good players and know how they’ll gonna make it to win. They have techniques and know where to use it. They are risk takers who attempt on whatever happens. They are adventurous and very curious. They are hard-and-fast...happy-go-lucky. They love how their guts enriching their ego. They are such a flabbergasting people.

                In spite of those groovy qualities modern guys have, they seem to break the rules...yah...you’d read it right! That makes them a little complicated. There are pieces of bafflement behind those tricky deeds. Those sincere eyes may bluff. Those naive words may deceit. That sweet caress may disappear. One day they’re there...the next day they’re gone. Guys enjoy those changes due to modernization. The environmental development brought out by technological evolution. That made them so cool to experiment. They deal on everything, so then with feelings. Yeah...the point here is their feelings. The real thing is that...their emotional distinction sometimes is doubtful. It’s either “Yes” or “No” behavior – the idea where they can’t read their minds that easy. Their stability status range in between wherein there’s no fixed outcome. When they reach for a climax condition, then comes in a diminishing returns that results in starting a new one...meaning, there’s no contentment yet and they are just so filled with a hazy thought.

                Still, with all such good or bad insights about guys...for reel or real...for them, being happy to go along with what life bring is the most adventurous, amazing, and surprising rules in a race of guys’ game of love. But, as time goes by, everything changes always for good. Boys become guys...become man. Their rules become their vision. Their race tracks become their guidance. Their strategies become their armor.  Their guts become their power. All the crazy stuffs become their experience leading for a realization of learning. Game is over when they win for a real thing called TRUE LOVE.

Isn’t

Isn’t I’m that easy to get attracted to someone???

Whenever I got constant communication, I’d been drawn???

Even it’s just exchanging messages through phone???

With this...ohh, can’t understand. How come???

Isn’t it’s wrong to follow on where it’ll be going???

To enjoy that ride where chances are coming???

To open the light & keep that fire on burning???

Regardless of whatever people around are thinking???

Isn’t I’m too wary for my feelings to spell it out???

Wherein I look too anxious mixed with a doubt???

In spite most of the time my heart beats loud???

‘Coz I don’t know what idea in his mind’s all ‘bout???

Isn’t much time in knowing him more be so crucial???

Knowing that it’s there, no need to be in a social???

For this kind of set-up is no longer than usual???

So then now...what’s next...where then I shall???

Isn’t this too much for me to miss him so bad???

That I still can’t hide all the craziness I had???

Pretending to feel fine even though I feel sad???

Just because I got a beep from him...oh lad???

Isn’t he had notice that I used to like him gradually???

For all the things he shares on me unexpectedly???

Then make fun of the topics that are so...so...oddly???

Can’t get enough with that desire in knowing more curiously???

So many questions

For my uncertainties

It’s all go and yes

Fun, chase, game and tease.

Written In My Heart

Get my pen on and compose a poem. That’s whenever I get star struck to a guy ‘til he can’t get off my mind...I mean crush...super crush...infatuation...love---uh-oh LOVE I don’t think so, I’m in denial ‘bout it always.

            Poems clearly explain how I truly feel for a guy. I can’t hide about it. Whatever runs on my mind, I write. It’s like my mind’s full of emotions I’m hunger to deliver.  My imagination works aggressively. It’s always a magic where good music tune singing in rhythm. Composing a poem is just like composing a song lyric. I can make more verses as possible especially when I get enough time to deliberate on it. Moments when I see him, I think of him, I hear his voice, and when he’s talked about makes me grab that chance to make short verses.  I often use simple and creative words for revealing statements but if feelings are little intimate, I use jargons. My words can lie...but my mind can’t. Honestly, I often used to disguise with my feelings. Every poem I make is so personalize wherein they mark a piece in my life. I know people around me notice that I keep it but my actions oppose. That idea of writing about it instead proves how private-type person I am...or I’m just too pathetic when it comes to expressing feelings to someone??? Whatever it is, writing verses about someone I admire is a terrific thing to do. 

It All Starts With LOVE

I used to make everyday journals before and even composing poems. I love reading books and magazines too. So then, what makes me thought of blogging just recently? ---Yeah just recently.  

            Maybe, now I deeply appreciate more every articles, stories and even song compositions. I got hooked on reading... and reading... and reading.  I’d been captivated in discovering and exploring new things, almost about everything. I’d been more open with different opinions, listening from within and over viewing stances. My way of thinking is more artistic in playing with my imagination on different possibilities. It stirs me up on what’s more in store that life might bring. 

            Whenever I got a spare time, I grab my computer...and write whatever comes on my mind. I enjoy wandering on how life’s going on. It’s cool to share the things I learned from keeping my eyes on staggering ideas I used to read. They are so amazing. It seems like making conversation with the writer. Sometimes, I used to agree, to be a little bewilder, and to contradict with the idea. But most of the time, I tend to say “ahhh”, that’s a convincing point.  I really adore how terrific writers are. I got a little experience on writing during my elementary days but I don’t take it seriously, neither, it’s not my interest.  Although I don’t get in the profession of writing, I know it’s always that willingness to share ideas through writing that counts. I just put my enthusiasm to write and share my ideas as well as the knowledge I learn from reading which I really value. I guess I’ll make it better as I go along the way of writing. Writing is such an art, and I do love arts ever since. Everything we do is an art...every art comes from passion...and that passion comes from love.