“Falling In Love” Vs. “Being In Love”

            When we talk about love...basically the first thing comes on our mind is that...”I’m falling for him/her!” Psychologically speaking, that sounds a typical way to say it. It’s very unusual for everyone. On the other hand, literally speaking, there’s something wrong with that. It’s totally such a mistake to fall for love. You’ll never notice that easily ‘coz the feeling you had is perplex. You really had no idea why you eventually end up loving him/her. It’s not a forceful situation that you decided to fall...you just fall...no exemption. That’s how love works though. Love is always a mystery. But, isn't it’s wrong to fall in love? Somehow, you’ll gonna realize that the idea of falling with someone may sooner or later leads to heartaches and broken-hearts.  Another thing is that, it’s uncertain if the one you’re falling with is willing to catch you. It’s kinda half-witted guessing game. The worst thing, you’re gonna think of love to be unfair wherein you just keep on hanging or got bruised for falling. You come out to feel bitter and may judge love for its imperfection.  Yeah...it’s really part of falling in love. Motion creates emotion. That motion to fall isn't gonna be perfect way in bringing up a feeling for love. The tendency to fall hard gives a deeper pain. Those pains will hurt you so much that may ruin your life and make you so miserable. It’s never gonna be easy. Recovery stage depends on the state of the affected situation. You’ll never know how long it would last although time will heal.

                   

             Yes!...it’s gonna be love, you got it. Isn't it sounds great when you say “I’m being in love with him/her!” or just say “I’m inlove with him/her!”? Omitting the word fall provides you a different outlook. You see all great things and beautiful. That’s the real love – happy, understanding and comforting...selfless...perfect love. The idea of being in love indulges in a cozy and fantastic experience. It’s like putting your love to someone you’re in loved with. Still, that love is unexplained ..it’s by nature that you just feel the magic of love...so you just love...just love...not FALL. It’s guaranteed that no one does gonna be hang unlike when you fall in love. Being in love with someone provides acceptance on wherever your love be going. The chance to have that mutual feeling is definite too. When you’re in love, you let those pieces of both your hearts to be handle with care and trust with each other. Those hearts as a symbol of love will surely grow for a lusting relationship because of such nourishment  It’s always a part of love then to experience those down moments but it’s divergent to falling in love. Painful situation are much lighter and healing process have lesser time when you’re being in love. It’s because of the proper way of handling your relationship. You both know and understand that they’re just challenges for both of you to overcome together. You always come up as a team with love being merged as one. So there’s nothing more to feel than being in love . Don’t stop loving...keep being in love everyday.