Guys, Effort Please!

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How do guys get a girl these days? They do it so easily right? I mean no sweat, no effort. Well, IKR...no wonder, everything goes out with social media. You can make friends with a girl you seen online that you find pretty, cute or stunning by hitting up that ADD FRIEND button. You can easily chase what’s goin’ on ATM with the girl you’re admiring by just hitting up that FOLLOW button. You can get connected with the girl you’re into by chatting her, get her digits, go out for a meet up... and there ‘ya go---see what happens next. That’s so, so real quick. A guy can have it all in a short period of time.

TBH, I understand these days, time flew fast and searching out for a potential relationship through social media is kinda an edge to give it a shot. Even it’s been miles away or on the other side of the world, a guy can likely get a girl. Hmmm, one thing I just notice is that guys take this for granted. You might say...just guys? Srsly?  Yep, of course! Still, guys should initiate right? Well, they forget what an EFFORT means. An effort to show the real motive, to show the respect, to show the sincerity. Damn it... that’s what girls anticipate, an effort. It’s a must and guys should be mindful of that. Girls often are kinda tenuous when it comes to feelings. We can easily snag by guys tricky moves. It’s inevitable. IKR, it’s a girl thing and it could be guy’s implication for a sloppy intention. Guys, take a note...it doesn’t work all the time, so don’t be at ease with that though. Ya know what, usually these guys befriend a girl, get into that petty convos, afterwards where now? What the heck? They’re here now, tomorrow they’re gone. Sometimes in the middle of nowhere, without even hitting them into our head, they suddenly beep us up. Phew! They might say, I just wanna know how are you...I just thought of you...I got nothing to do, ya know-a little bored blah blah blah. They might think there’s an effort in there, ‘coz they keep in touch. I might say that’s effort inconsistency. Such a big sigh. So guys, pls. don’t mess up. If you want a girl, it shouldn’t be like that and I know you knew what should be. 

Crush Problem

What would you do if your crush knows that you like him? Awkward isn't it?

That feeling of so ashamed.

That feeling of so conscious. 

That sweating of the palms

That heart beating fast.

That stuttering talks.

That feeling of so tensed. 

I never thought I would feel that way. Really, he's just my crush. Imagine- CRUSH. OMG! What's goin' on?

Well, it's kinda a Crush Problem though.

Hmm...with that, I came up checking over some of the videos here DatingLogic just to find out how to handle this.

It Started with a Pic

I got this one glimpse story and this seemed to be a little magical. Yeah, it’s a night with colourful skies full of stars & fireworks. A party shot w/ my cool friends. Here...I never thought of this cutie guy asking to take a picture with me. I recognized him before but I just didn’t mind that much. Yes...I know he’s really cute. I just smiled at him & yeah alright...I took my nod over him when he was introduced with me. Of course, it’s a peculiar scene. What’s so funny is that...I don’t know...but there’s a spark between us. Goshy, this is crazy. It made me smile, not just a smile but a grin. I can’t hide it. I knew my face suddenly turning a little reddish at that moment & so on. After that one click from his cam, he asked for another one. Looking over his phone, whatta smile...he got that very awesome smile. I think I’m frozen. My world stops in awhile. Yeah, honestly, all I see was him & me. This is kinda an XO, ‘ya know. Until such time we need to part. It’s time for me to go even though I don’t want yet. I gave him my goodbye. There ‘ya go...I can’t help it. I still have that smile all over me. He’s so damn cute. I can’t sleep immediately thinking of him especially his smile. This really sucks. Then as I woke up the next morning...c’mon, he’s the first person in my head. I don’t know what to say. I’m hoping to see him again & bond with him again so soon. What a fairytale moment...isn’t it? Oh my...I love it.

By The Sea

We  met by the sea

Never thought that would be

On the way I pass by

You stand there and said "Hi"

As when I catch your gaze

Brought a smile on my face

You asked for my name

Huh? and on my number then

Throughout that time

Never let go your eyes on mine

I tried to ignore

But you keep teasing more

Don't know what to do

I just take it with a "Go"

That Time

As we are sitting side by side,

I began to think of what’s inside,

The feelings I have, I used to hide,

Analyzing the details throughout my mind.

Making conversation with you, so fine!

In a typical stories, we still got in line,

It’s amazing how funny it is to smile,

Simple glimpse on you, in a closer mile.

Good to feel at ease, with you throughout that time,

But the moment you got me home in prime,

There’s something in me, I don’t know why,

What a perfect day uh-oh!!! I’m just so high.

I’m trying to figure out,

If there’s no such thing to doubt,

Believing on what’s love all about,

Unusual state of mind…Speak out!